How to Set Goals

How to Set Goals When Life Feels Uncertain

Why it’s Important to Set Goals

As we begin a new year, many of us are considering what goals we’d like to set for 2023. Setting goals can give you a sense of purpose and accomplishment. So, how to set goals when life feels uncertain? Goals can help you feel motivated and give us a roadmap to follow. Goals are a great way to hold ourselves accountable, even if we fail. Setting goals and working to achieve them helps us define what we truly want in life and prioritize things.

How to Set and Make Progress on Goals

Set SMART goals. Many goal experts suggest setting SMART goals. SMART stands for specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-based. With that in mind, consider specific, realistic goals you can work on in this season.

Ask for help. Seek out expert resources to help you meet your goals. If you have any health-related goals – such as losing weight, starting a new exercise routine or quitting smoking – your first stop should be your primary care provider. They can review your health history, make personalized recommendations and refer you to other providers (such as a dietitian) or programs (like smoking cessation) to help you reach your goals. I like to give my patients an “exercise prescription” that fits into their lives.

Make a plan. Decide when and where you’ll work on your goals. For example, if you want to meditate or read each day, what time will you do so? It can be helpful to pair a new habit with an already established one. Perhaps you’ll meditate after you finish getting ready for the day or you’ll read for 20 minutes after dinner.

Prevent burnout. Taking on too much too soon can lead to burnout. Consider setting a “maximum” limit to keep your goals sustainable. For example, when building a new walking habit, you may decide to walk for 10 minutes per day, but no more than 30. Then as you become more comfortable with walking, 30 minutes of exercise will not feel so unattainable.

Create a supportive environment. Your surroundings can help or hinder good habits. If you want to spend less time on your phone, don’t charge it on your bedside table, where you’ll be tempted to check it first thing in the morning. If you want to eat healthier, don’t buy junk food and keep it in the house. Likewise, if you want to stretch before bed, keep your yoga mat in your bedroom.

Seek accountability. Ask a friend or family member to serve as your accountability partner on your goals. This person doesn’t have to live in the same city as you; they just need to be willing to check in regularly and hold you accountable.

Track your progress. Monitoring your progress can help you stay motivated. It can feel great to check off that you exercised three times this week, saved $100 this month or read 15 pages a day. Try marking your progress in a notebook or using a habit-tracking app.

Be kind to yourself. It’s never too late to make progress on your goals and you don’t need a new year to get started. You can start fresh anytime. If you slip up or don’t meet your goal one day, week or month, get back on track the next day. No one is perfect. What matters is consistency. You may look back this time next year and see how far you’ve come.

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